4. Not About You

On the day I came across this passage,  I grew wiser mentally when coming to the concept of men and their needs and wants towards women . I started to see the bright side and understanding why I am not entitled to any man's attention. It also made me want to be the bigger person in my life and achieve much more than what I had initially wanted. It was on this day when I decided that the life I want with my ideal man will find me when it does, and when it doesn't, it is not a train smash. I also decided that I will put myself in a position of a doing all things I would expect an ideal man to do for me.

One would say I had given up on the whole concept of having a man, but that's not what it is.  I had given up on the concept that my ideal man will walk in and do all the things I never thought of doing for myself.

I adapted to the fact that he has himself to focus on, and so do I.

18 July 2017

No matter if a man is a CEO, a CON, or both, Everything he does is filtered through his title (who he is), how He gets that title (what he does), and the reward he gets for the effort (how much he makes). These three things make up the Basic DNA of manhood—the three accomplishments every Man must achieve before he feels like he’s truly fulfilled his Destiny as a man. And until he’s achieved his goal in those three Areas, the man you’re dating, committed to, or married to will Be too busy to focus on you.

His focus has always been On, and will remain on, who he is, what he does, and how Much he makes until he feels like he’s achieved his mission. And until a man does these things, women only fit into the Cracks of his life. He’s not thinking about settling down, Having children, or building a home with anyone until he’s Got all three of those things in sync. I’m not saying that he has Had to have made it, but at least he has to be on track to Making it.

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